Its the most essential thing of all just because its not a matter of how you do it at all but of whether you do it. Like being born or cooking how you do it is less important than whether you do it. You can find thousands of books on prayer that give you methods of praying hundreds of hows but they do you no good at all unless you actually pray. Otherwise its like reading a cookbook instead of cooking. You cant eat a cookbook
Our love was covered in fur yet I was the only one who wanted to pet it.