Yes I decided a man can truly change. The events of the past year have taught me much about myself and a few universal truths. I learned for instance that while wounds can be inflicted easily upon those we love its often much more difficult to heal them. Yet the process of healing those wounds provided the richest experience of my life leading me to believe that while Ive often overestimated what I could accomplish in a day I had underestimated what I could do in a year. But most of all I learned that its possible for two people to fall in love all over again even when theres been a lifetime of disappointment between them.