Its hard to love a woman and do anything.

As the light begins to intensify so does my misery and I wonder how it is possible to hurt so much when nothing is wrong.

Hope is not about proving anything. Its about choosing to believe this one thing that love is bigger than any grim bleak shit anyone can throw at us.

Every time we make the decision to love someone we open ourselves to great suffering because those we most love cause us not only great joy but also great pain. The greatest pain comes from leaving. When the child leaves home when the husband or wife leaves for a long period of time or for good when the beloved friend departs to another country or dies the pain of the leaving can tear us apart.Still if we want to avoid the suffering of leaving we will never experience the joy of loving. And love is stronger than fear life stronger than death hope stronger than despair. We have to trust that the risk of loving is always worth taking.

What is love two souls and one flesh friendship two bodies and one soul.

Every normal man must be tempted at times to spit on his hands hoist the black flag and begin slitting throats.

Oh lovers be careful in those dangerous first days once youve brought breakfast in bed youll have to bring it forever unless you want to be accused of lovelessness and betrayal.

Would you rather live one perfect day over and over or live your life with no perfect days but just decent ones

Frustration and Love cant exist in the same place at the same time so get real and start doing what you would rather be doing in life. Love your life. All of it. Even the heavy shit that happened to you when you were 8. All of it was and IS perfect.

abyss n.There are times when I doubt everything. When I regret everything youve taken from me everything Ive given you and the waste of all the time Ive spent on us.