My wife and I just dont have the same feelings for each other we used to have. I guess I just dont love her anymore and she doesnt love me. What can i doThe feeling isnt there anymore I asked.Thats right he reaffirmed. And we have three children were really concerned about. What do you suggestlove her I replied.I told you the feeling just isnt there anymore.Love her.You dont understand. the feeling of love just isnt there.Then love her. If the feeling isnt there thats a good reason to love her.But how do you love when you dont love My friend love is a verb. Love - the feeling - is a fruit of love the verb. So love her. Serve her. Sacrifice. Listen to her. Empathize. Appreciate. Affirm her. Are you willing to do that