Some women choose to follow men and some women choose to follow their dreams. If youre wondering which way to go remember that your career will never wake up and tell you that it doesnt love you anymore.

Have you ever been in love Horrible isnt it It makes you so vulnerable. It opens your chest and it opens up your heart and it means that someone can get inside you and mess you up. You build up all these defenses you build up a whole suit of armor so that nothing can hurt you then one stupid person no different from any other stupid person wanders into your stupid life...You give them a piece of you. They didnt ask for it. They did something dumb one day like kiss you or smile at you and then your life isnt your own anymore. Love takes hostages. It gets inside you. It eats you out and leaves you crying in the darkness so simple a phrase like maybe we should be just friends turns into a glass splinter working its way into your heart. It hurts. Not just in the imagination. Not just in the mind. Its a soul-hurt a real gets-inside-you-and-rips-you-apart pain. I hate love.

Promise YourselfTo be so strong that nothingcan disturb your peace of mind.To talk health happiness and prosperityto every person you meet.To make all your friends feelthat there is something in themTo look at the sunny side of everythingand make your optimism come true.To think only the best to work only for the bestand to expect only the best.To be just as enthusiastic about the success of othersas you are about your own.To forget the mistakes of the pastand press on to the greater achievements of the future.To wear a cheerful countenance at all timesand give every living creature you meet a smile.To give so much time to the improvement of yourselfthat you have no time to criticize others.To be too large for worry too noble for anger too strong for fearand too happy to permit the presence of trouble.To think well of yourself and to proclaim this fact to the worldnot in loud words but great deeds.To live in faith that the whole world is on your sideso long as you are true to the best that is in you.

A ladys imagination is very rapid it jumps from admiration to love from love to matrimony in a moment.

It is not a lack of love but a lack of friendship that makes unhappy marriages.

I have decided to stick to love...Hate is too great a burden to bear.

I am not sure exactly what heaven will be like but I know that when we die and it comes time for God to judge us he will not ask How many good things have you done in your life rather he will ask How much love did you put into what you did

Tis better to have loved and lostThan never to have loved at all.

Were all seeking that special person who is right for us. But if youve been through enough relationships you begin to suspect theres no right person just different flavors of wrong. Why is this Because you yourself are wrong in some way and you seek out partners who are wrong in some complementary way. But it takes a lot of living to grow fully into your own wrongness. And it isnt until you finally run up against your deepest demons your unsolvable problemsthe ones that make you truly who you arethat were ready to find a lifelong mate. Only then do you finally know what youre looking for. Youre looking for the wrong person. But not just any wrong person the right wrong personsomeone you lovingly gaze upon and think This is the problem I want to have.I will find that special person who is wrong for me in just the right way.Let our scars fall in love.

Love is a fire. But whether it is going to warm your hearth or burn down your house you can never tell.