Agape doesnt love somebody because theyre worthy.Agape makes them worthy by the strength and power of its love.Agape doesnt love somebody because theyre beautiful.Agape loves in such a way that it makes them beautiful.

Love is giving up control. Its surrendering the desire to control the other person. The twolove and controlling power over the other personare mutually exclusive. If we are serious about loving someone we have to surrender all the desires within us to manipulate the relationship.