Mom how do you know if the guy is the guyYou mean if hell be a good husband She pauses then says The ticket is for the man to love the woman more than she loves him.Shouldnt it be equalMom cackles. It can never be equal.But what if the woman loves the man moreA life of hell awaits her. As women the deck is stacked against us because time is our enemy. We age while men season. And trust me there are plenty of women out there looking for a man and they dont mind staking a claim on somebody elses husband no matter how old creaky and deaf they are.

Thats when you know for sure somebody loves you. They figure out what you need and they give it to you -- without you asking.