When you have reached the point where you no longer expect a response you will at last be able to give in such a way that the other is able to receive and be grateful. When Love has matured and through a dissolution of the self into light become a radiance then shall the Lover be liberated from dependence upon the Beloved and the Beloved also be made perfect by being liberated from the Lover.
Im ruined beyond repair is what I fear...And if so in time wed both be wretched and bitter. I know people can be mended. Not all and some more immediately than others. But some can be. I dont see why not you. Why not me
What a man wants is a mate and what a woman wants is infinite security and What a man is is an arrow into the future and a what a woman is is the place the arrow shoots off from.
Its funny. No matter how hard you try you cant close your heart forever. And the minute you open it up you never know whats going to come in. But when it does you just have to go for it Because if you dont theres not point in being here.