To douchebags he said gesturing to Brad. And to girls that break your heart he bowed his head to me. His eyes lost focus. And to the absolute fucking horror of losing your best friend because you were stupid enough to fall in love with her.

The only thing worse than a boy who hates you a boy that loves you.

Just when you think it cant get any worse it can. And just when you think it cant get any better it can.

Were all seeking that special person who is right for us. But if youve been through enough relationships you begin to suspect theres no right person just different flavors of wrong. Why is this Because you yourself are wrong in some way and you seek out partners who are wrong in some complementary way. But it takes a lot of living to grow fully into your own wrongness. And it isnt until you finally run up against your deepest demons your unsolvable problemsthe ones that make you truly who you arethat were ready to find a lifelong mate. Only then do you finally know what youre looking for. Youre looking for the wrong person. But not just any wrong person the right wrong personsomeone you lovingly gaze upon and think This is the problem I want to have.I will find that special person who is wrong for me in just the right way.Let our scars fall in love.

There are two basic motivating forces fear and love. When we are afraid we pull back from life. When we are in love we open to all that life has to offer with passion excitement and acceptance. We need to learn to love ourselves first in all our glory and our imperfections. If we cannot love ourselves we cannot fully open to our ability to love others or our potential to create. Evolution and all hopes for a better world rest in the fearlessness and open-hearted vision of people who embrace life.

Love does not begin and end the way we seem to think it does. Love is a battle love is a war love is a growing up.

And in the endThe love you takeis equal to the love you make.

Once upon a time there was a boy who loved a girl and her laughter was a question he wanted to spend his whole life answering.

When someone loves you the way they talk about you is different. You feel safe and comfortable.

It is better to be hated for what you are than to be loved for what you are not.