Those questions you have Whether hes the one whether you feel about him the way you should or whether the relationship is going okay When youre not sure whether youre in love with someone or not the answer is not.
Famous Quotes from Deb Caletti
This is what I know. Dont settle for 40 50 or even 80 percent. A relationship-it shouldnt be too small or too tight or even a little scratchy. It shouldnt take up space in your closet out of guilty conscience or convenience or a moment of desire. Do you hear me It shold be perfect for you. It should be lasting. Wait. wait for 100 percent.
Sometimes love is a surprise an instant of recognition a sudden gift at a sudden moment that makes everything different from then on. Some people will say thats not love that you cant really love someone you dont know. But Im not so sure. Love doesnt seem to follow a plan its not a series of steps. It can hit with the force of nature--an earthquake a tidal wave a storm of wild relentless energy that is beyond your simple attempts at control.
Youve got to have someone who loves your body. Who doesnt define you but sees you. Who loves what he sees. Who you dont have to struggle to be good enough for.
It starts so young and Im angry about that. The garbage were taught. About love about whats romantic. Look at so many of the so-called romantic figures in books and movies. Do we ever stop and think how many of them would cause serious and drastic unhappiness after The End Why are sick and dangerous personality types so often shown a passionate and tragic and something to be longed for when those are the very ones you should run for your life from Think about it. Heathcliff. Romeo. Don Juan. Jay Gatsby. Rochester. Mr. Darcy. From the rigid control freak in The Sound of Music to all the bad boys some woman goes running to the airport to catch in the last minute of every romantic comedy. She should let him leave. Your time is so valuable and look at these guys--depressive and moody and violent and immature and self-centered. And what about the big daddy of them all Prince Charming What was his secret life We dont know anything about him other then he looks good and comes to the rescue.
Thats what people do who love you. They put their arms around you and love you when youre not so lovable.
Ive wished for things and never really had the chance...Its time to stop dreaming and do something about it. Youve got to know what you want then...go.