Were taught that in life we should try to look on the bright side. Not in this case. In this case assume rejection first. Assume youre the rule not the exception. Its liberating. But we also know its not an easy concept. -Hes not just into you

Heres something else to think about calling when you say youre going to is the very first brick in the house you are building of love and trust. If he cant lay this one stupid brick down you aint never gonna have a house baby and its cold outside.

Im about to make a wild extreme and severe relationship rule the word busy is a load of crap and is most often used by assholes. The word busy is the relationship Weapon of Mass Destruction. It seems like a good excuse but in fact in every silo you uncover all youre going to find is a man who didnt care enough to call. Remember men are never to busy to get what they want.

If hes not calling you its because you are not on his mind. If he creates expectations for you and then doesnt follow through on little things he will do same for big things. Be aware of this and realize that hes okay with disappointing you. Dont be with someone who doesnt do what they say theyre going to do. If hes choosing not to make a simple effort that would put you at ease and bring harmony to a recurring fight then he doesnt respect your feelings and needs. Busy is another word for asshole. Asshole is another word for the guy youre dating. You deserve a fcking phone call.