Love is the will to extend ones self for the purpose of nurturing ones own or anothers spiritual growth... Love is as love does. Love is an act of will -- namely both an intention and an action. Will also implies choice. We do not have to love. We choose to love.

Genuine love is rarely an emotional space where needs are instantly gratified. To know love we have to invest time and commitment...dreaming that love will save us solve all our problems or provide a steady state of bliss or security only keeps us stuck in wishful fantasy undermining the real power of the love -- which is to transform us. Many people want love to function like a drug giving them an immediate and sustained high. They want to do nothing just passively receive the good feeling.

Friends are the family you choose NinIthilnin Elven rogue.

Be determined.You can make it in life.You can make all your dreams come true.