To say that one waits a lifetime for his soulmate to come around is a paradox. People eventually get sick of waiting take a chance on someone and by the art of commitment become soulmates which takes a lifetime to perfect.
Love is the ultimate outlaw. It just wont adhere to any rules. The most any of us can do is to sign on as its accomplice. Instead of vowing to honor and obey maybe we should swear to aid and abet. That would mean that security is out of the question. The words make and stay become inappropriate. My love for you has no strings attached. I love you for free.
Yes I decided a man can truly change. The events of the past year have taught me much about myself and a few universal truths. I learned for instance that while wounds can be inflicted easily upon those we love its often much more difficult to heal them. Yet the process of healing those wounds provided the richest experience of my life leading me to believe that while Ive often overestimated what I could accomplish in a day I had underestimated what I could do in a year. But most of all I learned that its possible for two people to fall in love all over again even when theres been a lifetime of disappointment between them.