Desires and wishes dont lead to success. Plans and efforts do. Create a vision chalk out an action plan put in your best efforts and give yourself a headstart in achieving your dreams.
A leader without a clear vision and plans only abuses his power because visions dreams and plans are the fulcrum along which the loads of success will spine by your own efforts. And where power is abused there is manipulation instead of inspiration.
Dreams in your life are like light bulbs that brighten your room. But having them on the ceiling is just not enough you got to make an effort by pressing on the switch and there it goes taking away the darkness
Accept the fact that you are the pivot along which the loads of your efforts will turn. Acknowledge yourself as the chairperson at the center of affairs management for your dreams. Take the chair and be at the fore-front.