If we want to live perfectly happy lives...we must drive out selfish character tendencies such as pride ego vanity jealousy lusts envy and worry. When we learn to live selflessly putting others before ourselves committing to what is noble right and good treating others with love and compassion...thats when true happiness is experienced. A genuine focus on selflessness cures all and creates an environment for true growth. Its the secret to every great relationship. We gain...when we give up self. Sacrificing ones selfish characteristics through diligent thought meditation prayer and action gives life to true love and abounding joy.Jason Versey