Dont be reckless with other peoples hearts. Dont put up with people who are reckless with yours.

In itself homosexuality is as limiting as heterosexuality the ideal should be to be capable of loving a woman or a man either a human being without feeling fear restraint or obligation.

I am not a believer in love at first sight. For love in its truest form is not the thingof starry-eyed or star-crossed lovers it is far more organic requiring nurturing and timeto fully bloom and as such seen best not in its callow youth but in its wrinkled maturity.Like all living things love too struggles against hardship and in the process shedsits fatuous skin to expose one composed of more than just a storm of emotionone of loyaltyand divine friendship. Agape. And though it may be temporarily blinded by adversityit never gives in or up holding tight to lofty ideals that transcend this earth andtimewhile its counterfeit simply concludes it was mistaken and quickly runs off tofind the next real thing.

Most things are forgotten over time. Even the war itself the life-and-death struggle people went through is now like something from the distant past. Were so caught up in our everyday lives that events of the past are no longer in orbit around our minds. There are just too many things we have to think about everyday too many new things we have to learn. But still no matter how much time passes no matter what takes place in the interim there are some things we can never assign to oblivion memories we can never rub away. They remain with us forever like a touchstone.

I regret... Tobias tilts his head and sighs. I regret my choice.What ChoiceDauntless he says. I was born Abnegation. I was planning on leaving Dauntless and becoming factionless. But I met her and... I felt like maybe I could make something more of my decision.Her.

The moment our lips met I knew with pure and piercing certainty that I would have waited for him forever.

Remember. The way you make love is the way God will be with you.

Love is the will to extend ones self for the purpose of nurturing ones own or anothers spiritual growth... Love is as love does. Love is an act of will -- namely both an intention and an action. Will also implies choice. We do not have to love. We choose to love.

Whats a fuck when what I want is love

Genuine love is rarely an emotional space where needs are instantly gratified. To know love we have to invest time and commitment...dreaming that love will save us solve all our problems or provide a steady state of bliss or security only keeps us stuck in wishful fantasy undermining the real power of the love -- which is to transform us. Many people want love to function like a drug giving them an immediate and sustained high. They want to do nothing just passively receive the good feeling.